Top Ten Mistakes That Men & Women Make In Relationships

Relationships are hard. It is difficult for anyone to be selfless and willing to compromise all of the time. Most people believe that relationships are 50/50.

However, the truth is they aren’t. They are hard. It is difficult for anyone to be selfless and willing to compromise all of the time. Most people believe that relationships are 50/50. However, the truth is they aren’t.

Couples are like balance beam scales. It is rare that couples are mentally and emotionally equal for a long period of time. These are two different people who experience different things everyday who are trying to merge their lives. Someone is always willing to give a little more or take a little more.

Now, this does not mean you have a horrible relationship. It is all a part of the human condition. Problems arise if these positions never switch. If one is always giving and the other is always taking, chances are the relationship will fail. Furthermore, it creates a plethora of other problems. So, if your relationship is on the rocks or you find yourself experiencing failed relationship after failed relationship, perhaps you are making these mistakes.

1. Having Sex Too Quickly
2. Lack Of Communication
3. Lying
4. Accusing Rather Than Expressing How Your Partners Actions Make You Feel Wrong: You are
5. un-supportive and inconsiderate! Right: I feel that you do not support me or are considerate of my
6. feelings. USE “I” STATEMENTS.
7. Involving Other People In Your Relationship
8. Holding On To The Past
9. Trying To Control Your Partner
10. Trying To Change Your Partner
11. Only Thinking Of Your Needs
12. Stressing Over The Small Things